It’s not really about the question, it’s the answer

What is one question you hate to be asked? Explain.

Warning/note: rambling today

The question is ‘who is your father?’ and I hate to be asked this by certain people because the answer is complicated and potentially dangerous. That sounds really dramatic but the truth is real, I hate this question for a good reason. I don’t really know my father well, and the Darkness inside is taking over when the light disappears from behind the scenes. Okay so, yeah.. my father is truly my biological father, we are both DNA-tested and share 50% DNA. I hate to be asked by people who might react if I tell them the truth, they might remember the boy the others targeted for being different. It involved serious violence toward him, sometimes it makes me wonder what’s wrong with the world that let this terrible thing happen to an innocent child.

I also hate being asked what I do for a living because people expect I’m in school or in the workplace but I’m disabled and that’s how it is. Life is good no matter what you do in daily work or learning, disabled people matter just as much even without employment or the advanced education.

So those are some things where the answers are complex and not easy in social situations to answer in both honesty and also self-respect for family and disability.

Thanks for reading ❤